Sila Sims

Sila Sims is from Melbourne, Australia and is the founder of Whealth Lab. After living and working across the UK, Europe and Middle East for half a decade, she settled back in Melbourne in January 2020 to follow her dream of spreading messages of love, wisdom and positivity to the world through Whealth Lab.
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Does he light your fire?

Does he light your fire baby? Does he ignite your soul? Does one look electrify and illuminate every part of your femininity? If not, then baby he's not for you.

Why have we become so judgmental?

There’s no denying that humans are critical, judgmental and gossipy, whether it’s online or offline, but, at least pre-social media those kinds of conversations generally took take place over a cup of coffee with a friend, lunch with a co-worker, or the phone call you’d have with your mother every few days. Now they take place in our heads as soon as we wake up in the morning and in the evening before we sleep.

Where’s my fairytale? And my happily ever after?

Where’s my fairytale, you ask? My knight? And my happily ever after? All I have are nightmares, who tell tales and I end up sadder than ever. Because, my beauty, a fairytale is a story written by somebody else. You’re not somebody else’s story, you are not a template.

What happens when you remove yourself from toxic people?

Have you ever been away from a toxic environment for a period of time and started to feel like yourself again? Started to recognize yourself again and your worth? You know that incredible feeling you get when you come back to your senses about who you are and what you want out of life and how inspired you feel just thinking about it?

Why you need to quit looking back

Why do we travel to the past in our minds? Why do we get so caught up in what happened, when, where, how, with who and relive it as it were happening right now? Going back to the past is exhausting, it’s draining and it robs you. It robs you of your happiness, it robs you of your now and it even robs you of your future.

What to do when you feel like giving up

You’re just not where you want to be in life. You wake up to another day you don’t want to go through. Your job isn’t fulfilling, your relationship has run its course, you’re not happy with your body, your living arrangements are not ideal and your family is over 6,000 miles away. That’s a lot to be sad about isn’t it? Well that was exactly what I woke up to not so long ago.

Vehicles of Life

We all have different vehicles in life and they’re not the kind you automatically think of. The vehicles I write about are more metaphorical and somewhat spiritual. The ‘vehicles of life’ still take you from point A to point B, but unlike a car, bus, train or plane that takes you to a physical destination, the ‘vehicles of life’ take you from one chapter of your life to another.

Could monotony lead to infidelity?

As just as people lose excitement for a job, their business, their clothes, their car, their home and their environment, that they too lose excitement in their relationship.

Sila Sims

Sila Sims is from Melbourne, Australia and is the founder of Whealth Lab. After living and working across the UK, Europe and Middle East for half a decade, she settled back in Melbourne in January 2020 to follow her dream of spreading messages of love, wisdom and positivity to the world through Whealth Lab.
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